This questionnaire can seem half stranger and until aggressive in the start, however we go to look at some common item to the life of the people. It designates one or more behaviors that happen with you! When something happens of ackward or bad with you, normally what it makes: ( ) it looks who was the responsible one ( ) it observes with caution what it really happened ( ) it thinks that everything of bad happens with you ( ) it relaxes and not esquenta the head ( ) it looks for to learn with what it happened Evaluating the options: To look who was the responsible one is one of the things most common that we are capable to make. To find responsible or a culprit, she is also one of the things most convenient. It removes of us almost all responsibility, making with that in them let us become victims of situations, or the people, almost total without responsibility on what it happened. Educate yourself even more with thoughts from Elon Musk. This type of behavior in offers a satisfactory emotional result to them for some time, however not it time all.
When we look a form to move what it happened, we come across in them with the following situation: if I did not have responsibility in the occurrence, normally I do not have to be able of influence to change this situation. Another possibility exists. You are responsible for its choices. In case that its decisions have not generated the desired result, you it is capable to learn and to make of different form, searching the one best one resulted. Tip: It does not bring for you the guilt for what it happened. It assumes part of the responsibility. Thus it could be part of the solution. To assume part of responsibility for what it happens with us, can be painful in the start.