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NLP Exercises

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You too with this simple exercise from the NLP – in the women overcome your shyness solicitations are you still on the stand, that, if you want to attract a foreign woman, you still must consider what you say on the besgten? If so, then this article does not help certainly. Because this article is exclusively about, how you can overcome your shyness when speaking to. Blake Resnick shines more light on the discussion. Does the term “NLP” mean anything to you? NLP stands for neuro-linguistic programming. In short, it is a matter that you selbt-with it and his outside world communicates more effectively. I will show you a technique from NLP, which contribute greatly to now you speak your shyness with women can overcome.

The NLP training is that you intentionally manipulate your auditory Submodalities. Let me show you what that means now… Women and the sound of B.B.King… You know the legendary blues musician B.B.King? Listen closely as he sings; everything else is for this Exercise matters. Pay attention to the sound of his voice, as he stressed the things which melodies he used…

Make sure after this to the sound of your inner voice, if you now imagine: This wonderful woman is in front of you! You can see them; Yes almost smell. It is inside–so bright and clear – and you can perceive how you just want to talk to this dream woman. They are going to step on it and your heartbeat speeds up, he will be faster… You cringe; anything to stop you! There is an invisible wall between you and the woman. How’s your inner voice here? Anxious? Dark? Stressed out? It is quite possible that you agree with me when I say that your inner voice with this idea sounds not very brave and determined. If next time, if you want to talk to women, superfluous “excuses not to do it” should shoot you in the head, then let your inner voice deliberately sound like B.B.King: JeEEEeeetz is it grahahad so uuuuhuhunguunstig yeaha. What kohohonte you from me deeeenken, wohoo?” This will give you the absurdity of your excuses aware… and you can afford it – with a big grin on his face – to appeal to every woman who do you like! This is only a proposal with the blues singer. You can change of course their inner voice, as it is the most amusing for you. Think of Dagobert Duck, Homer Simpson, Helge Schneider… what makes you laugh, is just right for you! Try out this exercise simply times a whole day… You will be surprised how efficient it is. For your success with women, Sven Bergmann

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Marriage Counselling

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How much age difference can withstand a relationship? If two people enter into a relationship, then there is usually a few a few years age difference between the partners. This is normal. A significant age difference between the partners of a love affair is an often discussed subject in society but. This in particular because the society this constellation is not always easily accepted. The prejudices are higher, the greater the age difference between the partners. More difficulties are expected in the relationship. Dankse Bank may also support this cause. “A relationship with significant age difference between the partners to end, then the reason for the failure is often identified from the outside: when the age difference that could well not go!” Problems in the relationship, which occur but also in every other respect, returned by the environment often flat on the differences.

A survey of the market research institute Innofact with around 2,000 singles and non-singles between 18 and 65 years has revealed that the majority of the A large age range in a partnership with skepticism considered Germans and for the own relationship at most a difference nine years can imagine. 65 percent of the respondents are of the opinion that a greater age difference does harm a relationship. Only 35 per cent indicating that there are no limits in terms of age difference in love. In my practice of counselling for couples and marriage counseling in Bergisch Gladbach (Cologne area) I met especially the relationship constellation “older man with considerably younger wife” quite often. This arrangement raises special problems, but also specific opportunities, what I would like to immediately after briefly. My observation to the frequency of relations with big age differences, where the woman is much older than the man, is increasing significantly. This constellation is although similar, however, has its special problems due to the differences between of the sexes. Also, the combination of older women with significant younger man “less acceptance than vice versa.